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Importance of Living a Purpose – Driven Life


If you follow me on Snapchat (Milly Onyaye), then you probably know how much i`ve been raving about the beautiful weather that we have been experiencing in this part of the world where i live in.Β  When i tell you the temperatures went from a chilly 10 degrees to a blazing 27 degrees in a span of less than 24 hours, best believe you me things had to be done. And i mean QUICK, haha! In my nine good years of living here in Germany, i have learnt to accept the chilly unexpected weather conditions. I mean how can it be Spring and it`s still snowing?? Yess! Totally crazy but that`s the story of my life. So if you`ve reached this far then you probably know that i had to use the opportunity that mother nature brought my way, right? and i have a good feeling that this time round it`s going to stay warm for quite long πŸ™‚ (fingers crossed)

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I have been on a reading spree this month and in the moment i`m loving this book by Rick Warren called ,,What on earth i`m i here for?” . In the book he explains why it it important to have a purpose driven life. He mentions that everybody`s life is driven by something. Right now you may be driven by a problem, a pressure or a deadline. You may be also driven by a painful memory, a haunting fear or an unconscious belief.Β  There are a hundred of circumstances, values and emotions that can drive your life. It`s either you learn how to control what you let intoΒ  your life or you let them control you. The choice is really in your hands.




What i loved most are the benefits he mentioned to living a purpose-driven life which got me reflecting on my life and i thought i`d share some of them with you, hoping it would be of help to someone out there. So let`s get started, shall we?

  1. Knowing My Purpose Gives Meaning To My Life – Humans were made to have meaning. Without purpose, life is meaningless. A meaningless life is a life without hope or significance. This is a profound statement and one that everyone should spend time pondering. God gives purpose. Purpose gives meaning. Meaning gives hope and significance. There is awesome truth contained within that logic.
  2. Knowing My Purpose Simplifies My Life – My purpose becomes the standard I use to determine which activities are important and which are not. If an activity does not further my purpose it can, and often should, be removed or ignored. My purpose gives me the foundation on which to base decisions and allocate my time and resources.




  1. Knowing My Purpose Focuses My Life – With a determined purpose I can focus my time and energy on what is truly important. Without purpose I may always be getting distracted and changing direction. Focusing on a few things that fulfill my purpose will yield better results than attempting to focus on many things that may not.
  2. Knowing My Purpose Motivates My Life – Purpose produces passion. By knowing my purpose I will be passionate about achieving it.
  3. Knowing My Purpose Prepares Me For Eternity – My time on earth is nothing more than a preparation for eternity. What matters in the end is not whether people remember me after I am gone but what God says about my life. Building an eternal legacy is far more important than building an earthly one.

Hmmm.. Food for thought, right??



So while i`m still enjoying the last few chapters left for me to finish this book, i`d love to know how you live a purpose driven life? Let`s engage πŸ™‚

Ps: I wanted to thank Mumbi Nganga from Angiana wear on Instagram for this awesone two piece outfit that she custom made for me while i was in Kenya. Love how comfortable and stylish the outfit is. If you are reading this gal, thank you so much. Your work is AMAZING.


Milly πŸ™‚



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  • Reply emily 10/05/2016 at 1:11 pm

    Great job dear……. that outfit is different and was custom-made for you…. May the sun continue shinning so you may grace us with more beautiful pictures….. Inspiring post as well and definitely food for thought :*

    • Styled by Milly
      Reply Styled by Milly 10/05/2016 at 1:25 pm

      God has surely heard your prayers Warinda!
      Thank you doll πŸ™‚

  • Reply Millie 10/05/2016 at 1:46 pm

    i love the write up its motivating…and true its food for thought…..i love the outfit dya

    • Styled by Milly
      Reply Styled by Milly 11/05/2016 at 7:31 pm

      Thank you Millie. Glad younfound it inspiring πŸ™‚

  • Reply cindy omullo 10/05/2016 at 3:06 pm

    Oh my! It’s been a short while knowing but I think I like you job. A real woman has brains,functional I mean. Rich articles

  • Reply En_kay 14/05/2016 at 7:35 am drooling over everything here.
    You are just slayage defined

  • Reply Wenluditoh Daniellah 14/05/2016 at 10:44 am

    This two piece is really special and sure am now happy that i can now see the goodies from Kenya slowly making their way here on your blog and am sure there is more to come .This outfit is so so spring and so elegant I guess everybody who saw you there in Bremen couldn’t resist it!
    I love the tips on importance of living a purposeful driven life. I enjoy them every time!
    Have an awesome weekend dearie despite the bad Weather

    • Styled by Milly
      Reply Styled by Milly 17/05/2016 at 4:42 pm

      Yesss Wendy!
      This is a really special piece in my wardrobe.,.,
      Can`t wait to style it differently. Watch out for more amnazing posts

  • Reply Stephanie 15/05/2016 at 11:38 am

    What a coincidence Milly, I styled an African print attire too in my most recent post. Great minds think alike. Now lets talk about this two piece. Girl you definitely working this look. I love dashiki and we have been experiencing good weather over here in England so perfect time to wear my African print outfits. I live a purpose driven life by acknowledging God as the center of my life, entrusting my life in his hands, and basically reflecting on how far I have come and were I am heading to. Have a blessed weekend luv and stay blessed.x

    • Styled by Milly
      Reply Styled by Milly 17/05/2016 at 4:44 pm

      I love your take on living a purpose driven life Stephy. With God everything is possible πŸ™‚
      I`m heading over asap to your blog right now….

  • Reply Meron Dymphana 25/05/2016 at 5:29 pm

    I loooove!! The message on this post, it is very inspirational You totally look from Africa in that outfit hunnay, am glad you are still representing us out there. You look dashing!

    • Styled by Milly
      Reply Styled by Milly 02/06/2016 at 9:43 am

      I will always try my best to represent us Meron. This piece was soooo special to me. Thank you babe πŸ™‚

  • Reply Stephanie 18/06/2016 at 11:09 pm

    I want to let you now how much I truly appreciate this post! Often times, I feel somewhat lost in terms of figuring out what’s my purpose in life. I love the highlights from the book that you shared with us, I’ll have to check it out! Enjoy your weekend!

    Stephanie –

  • Reply Julie 30/08/2016 at 2:00 pm

    Such an inspiring post Milly.Thank you.
    Kindly whats the name of your weave?

    • Styled by Milly
      Reply Styled by Milly 30/08/2016 at 9:04 pm

      Thank you Julie.. This is the Gb Chilli by Fashion Idol πŸ™‚

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